Every member personally verified

Real people.
Genuine connections.

The UK's most honest gay dating platform. No bots, no fake profiles, no hidden fees. Every member verified by a real person on our team.

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100%
Human verified
£0.10
Per message
0
Bots or fake profiles
24h
Typical approval time
ID verified members only
End-to-end encrypted
Pay only for what you use
Human reviewed — no AI approvals
Secured by Stripe & PayPal
Why Gaymeetup

Built differently.
On purpose.

Every decision we've made is designed to protect you and give you a better experience than anything else out there.

Real people only
Every member submits a government-issued ID and a selfie. A real person on our team reviews every submission — no automated approvals, no AI. You know exactly who you're talking to.
Transparent pricing
No monthly subscription. You pay £0.10 per message, £0.20 per photo, £0.50 per video. The cost is shown before every action. Top up your wallet and spend only what you choose.
Privacy first
Your ID documents are encrypted, reviewed by our team, and permanently deleted after approval. We don't sell your data. We don't run ads. Your information is yours.
Photos & videos
Send photos and videos directly in chat. Every piece of media is charged clearly — no surprise unlocking fees. What you see is what it costs.
Find people near you
Browse verified profiles near your city. Filter by interests, looking-for status, and online availability. Every profile you see is a real, verified person.
Strong community safety
Report any user with one tap. Our moderation team reviews all reports. Bans are permanent and immediate. We take your safety seriously.
Getting started

Up and running
in four steps

From signing up to chatting with real people — here's how it works.

1
Create your account
Enter your name, email and date of birth. Takes less than two minutes. You must be 18 or older to join.
2
Verify your ID
Upload a photo of your passport, driving licence or national ID plus a selfie. Our team reviews within 24 hours.
3
Top up your wallet
Add credit via Stripe or PayPal. As little as £5 to get started. No subscription required — ever.
4
Start connecting
Browse verified profiles, send messages and share photos and videos. Pay only for what you send.
Simple pricing

No subscriptions.
No surprises.

Pay only for what you actually send. Top up your wallet with any amount and spend it at your own pace.

Text message
£0.10/msg
Send a message to any verified member. Charged when sent.
Most popular
Photo
£0.20/photo
Share a photo directly in your conversation. Received instantly.
Unlimited size
Video
£0.50/video
Send a video clip to bring your conversations to life.
Up to 10MB
Pre-paid wallet system
Top up with £5, £10, £20 or £50 via Stripe or PayPal. Your balance never expires. No monthly fee. No minimum spend. Stop and start whenever you like.
ID verification

Every member is
a real person

We verify every single account before it goes live. No exceptions. Here's our promise to you.

  • A real human reviews every ID — no automated systems
  • ID documents are encrypted and deleted after approval
  • Your ID is never shown to other members — ever
  • Typically approved within 24 hours
  • Fake IDs result in a permanent ban
UK GDPR compliant · ICO registered
Verification process
1
Register your account
Name, email, date of birth. Account created instantly.
2
Upload government ID
Passport, driving licence or national ID card accepted.
3
Upload selfie with ID
Hold your document next to your face to confirm identity.
4
Human review
Our team checks your submission. Email sent when approved.
✓
Account activated
You're live. Browse, message, connect.
Member stories

What our members
are saying

★★★★★

"Finally a platform where I know the person on the other end is real. I've been burned by fake profiles before — Gaymeetup is completely different. Every conversation feels genuine."

JR
Jamie, 28
London
★★★★★

"The pricing model is so refreshing. I know exactly what I'm spending. No subscription charging me when I'm not even using it. I'm actually in control of my money."

MK
Marcus, 34
Manchester
★★★★★

"The verification process gave me confidence straight away. Knowing everyone has been checked by an actual human makes such a difference. Highly recommend."

AL
Alex, 25
Birmingham
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